The Republicans — the vociferous, ultra-right conservative brand most often — love to spend gobs of time telling us all what a family is, how we should behave, and who we should love.
Of course, all the bloviating is often set on its ear when a prominent conservative or his or her offspring are shown to be in direct transgression of those conservative values. And none more than the daughter of our war-mongering, old-man-shooting, smirking vice president.
What will the American Family Association make of this, I wonder?
Mary Cheney, the vice president’s openly gay daughter, is pregnant. She and her partner of 15 years, Heather Poe, are “ecstatic” about the baby, due in late spring, said a source close to the couple.
It’s a baby boom for grandparents Dick and Lynne Cheney: Their older daughter, Elizabeth, went on leave as deputy assistant secretary of state before having her fifth child in July. “The vice president and Mrs. Cheney are looking forward with eager anticipation to the arrival of their sixth grandchild,” spokesman Lea Anne McBride said last night.
Cheney, 37, was a key aide to her father during the 2004 reelection campaign and now is vice president for consumer advocacy at AOL. Poe, 45, a former park ranger, is renovating their Great Falls home.
News of the pregnancy will undoubtedly reignite the debate about gay marriage. During the campaign, Mary Cheney was criticized by gay activists for not being more publicly supportive of same-sex marriage. Her father said people “ought to be free to enter into any kind of relationship they want to” but deferred to the president’s policy supporting a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages. Cheney herself called the proposed amendment “a gross affront to gays and lesbians everywhere” in her book, “Now It’s My Turn: A Daughter’s Chronicle of Political Life,” which was published in May.
Cheney has described her relationship with Poe — whom she took to last year’s White House dinner honoring Prince Charles and Camilla — as a marriage. The two met in 1988 while playing ice hockey and began dating four years later. They moved from Colorado to Virginia a year ago to be closer to Cheney’s family. In an interview with the Post six months ago, when asked if she and Poe wanted children, Cheney said that was a “conversation I think I should have with Heather first.”
In November, Virginia voters passed a state constitutional amendment banning gay marriage and civil unions; state law is unclear on whether Poe could have full legal rights as a parent of Cheney’s child. The circumstances of the pregnancy will remain private, said the source close to the couple. This is the first child for both.
As an aside, I am chuckling at the use of the word “spokesman” to describe their female PR agent.